My mother, born March 11, 1975, is an interestingly string and complex woman. while we don’t have the greatest relationship (never really did), as I grow older I’m trying my hardest to build a relationship with her before either of us kicks the bucket.

Ask me how that’s going… since I can remember, I’ve always tried to please my mother. She did what she could with what she had, but that also doesn’t permit parents to neglect their children. However, I’m constantly reminded that “she’s your mother”, and I get that but I struggle to let it go. I’m going through the process of forgiveness- which is one of the most difficult things you can do in life, especially with your family/parents.

Am I alone?” I’m stuck in the place of in between with my mom. I love her dearly and this isn’t a post to bash her. I’m trying to document the journey of where I started and where we end up.

I love my momma! She’s that girl… and I want to show her off because she’s trying and changing. Celebrate her because she’s 3 years sober and made it to see 51 years by the grace of God!

For those with difficult relationships with their mom or dad, if both parties are willing to change, it gets better. Don’t give up unless they’re not trying to or wanting to be better. Jesus is there and he’s closer than a brother. God is a mother and a father. Sometimes you have to let them go and let the Holy Spirit take over and change them.If it’s a dangerous situation, you are not obligated to take abuse! Make sure you’re safe and in peace.

My mom has been through alot- I won’t put her business out there- and she’s survived. She’s a Army veteran too and is stronger than anyone I know. I can’t wait to build a better relationship with her in the near future. ❤

Question: What advice would you give someone in a difficult relationship with their parent(s)?

In love,

Z.